How to Write a Eulogy
“Your grief is like your fingerprint, unique and personal to you.” - Irving and Thompson
Writing a eulogy is a deeply personal and meaningful way to honour the life of a loved one who has passed away. It’s a speech meant to praise, commemorate, and celebrate their journey and impact on those around them.
Understanding the Eulogy
A eulogy is not confined to a single speaker; multiple individuals can contribute to paint a complete picture of the deceased’s life. One speaker may delve into their early years, capturing moments that shaped their childhood. A colleague or business associate might share insights into their professional achievements and contributions. A close friend could reflect on their character, recounting stories that highlight their kindness and humour. A family member, like a son, daughter, or grandchild, might express the profound impact the deceased had on their lives, sharing cherished memories and life lessons. If multiple speakers are involved, it’s essential to manage time effectively, typically allowing no more than five minutes per speaker.
Crafting Your Eulogy
To guide you through the process of composing a heartfelt eulogy, consider organising your thoughts chronologically:
- Birth and Early Life: Begin with where and when they were born, and touch upon their upbringing and formative years.
- Education: Highlight their academic journey, discussing any significant milestones or achievements.
- Marriage and Family: Reflect on their relationships, marriage, and the joys of parenthood if applicable.
- Career and Achievements: Share their professional accomplishments, noting any special recognitions or contributions to their field.
- Life’s Milestones: Include significant events such as travels, hobbies, or passions that defined their life outside of work.
- Beliefs and Values: Discuss any spiritual or philosophical beliefs that guided their life and decisions.
- Legacy: Reflect on the lasting impact they’ve had on others and the community.
- Personal Memories: Share personal anecdotes that illustrate their personality, humour, and enduring qualities.
Closing Thoughts
Writing a eulogy is a labour of love, offering an opportunity to honour and remember someone dear. It’s a chance to celebrate their life, share cherished memories, and find solace in the legacy they leave behind.
If you’re tasked with delivering a eulogy or organising a memorial service, I’m here to support you every step of the way. As a celebrant, I understand the importance of crafting a heartfelt tribute that reflects the unique essence of your loved one’s life. Together, we can create a meaningful ceremony that honours their memory with dignity and love.
I also offer professional and personal eulogy copywriting services, ensuring that each tribute is crafted with sensitivity, respect, and personalisation to beautifully honour the life of your loved one.
Warm regards,
Genine
